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likes to call the shots—sexually, at least. In real
life, they may not show any signs of wanting or needing to
be in control, but to achieve erotic fulfillment, The
Top needs not only to give orders but also to see
them carried out. Their sexual pleasure is of the psychosexual
variety, which means that they intellectualize sex more than
most of the other erotic types. They are often partial to
leather and the accoutrements of bondage, and they frequently
reward those people they can bend to their will. They may
even like to deliver a bit of physical pain, but only if they
know the recipient will enjoy that pain.
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